No gays in the Turkish army.

Passed along by Will (thanks!):

From the BBC:

Proving you're gay to the Turkish army

Military service is mandatory for all Turkish men - they can only escape it if they are ill, disabled or homosexual. But proving homosexuality is a humiliating ordeal.

''They asked me when I first had anal intercourse, oral sex, what sort of toys I played with as a child."

Ahmet, a young man in his 20s, told officials he was gay at the first opportunity after he was called up, as he and other conscripts underwent a health check.

"They asked me if I liked football, whether I wore woman's clothes or used woman's perfume," he says.

''I had a few days' beard and I am a masculine guy - they told me I didn't look like a normal gay man.''

He was then asked to provide a picture of himself dressed as a woman.

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''I refused this request,'' he says. ''But I made them another offer, which they accepted.'' Instead he gave them a photograph of himself kissing another man.

Ahmet hopes this will give him what he needs - a "pink certificate", which will declare him homosexual and therefore exempt from military service.

Read the rest of the article here.

Porn, porn, and more porn.

Over the next week or so, I'll be posting piles about pornography, ethical porn, arguments against porn, etc. Some of you have requested more information about ethical porn specifically (for academic reasons only!). Obviously, there's way too much to include in one post, so I'll be adding stuff as I dig it up. The ethical porn movement has been driven largely by women who describe themselves as sex-positive feminists. Many more women are now producing porn, which has had a significant effect on the market. Not surprisingly, most of the porn sex-positive feminists discuss, promote, produce, etc. features men with women, or women with women. As of yet, the ethical porn movement has not really ventured much into gay male porn. If anybody out there is familiar with a similar trend in gay male porn, please let me know!!!

I should also make it clear that the ethical porn movement is, in no way, anti-hardcore. As a matter of fact, ethical porn can be EXTREMELY hardcore (or softcore). What makes it different is that it's ethically produced. Also keep in mind that the vast majority of mainstream porn, some of which is considered ethical, is still produced with men as the intended consumers.

More to come...

Laws against brothels struck down by Ontario Appeal Court.

This case, arguing against the constitutionality of Canada's sex work laws, has been making its way through the Ontario courts. It will likely end up in Canada's Supreme Court.

From the CBC:

Ontario’s Court of Appeal agrees that sex workers should be permitted to work in safer locations and pay others to help protect them, but not that they should be able to communicate with their clients in public places.

It struck down two laws Monday, calling them unconstitutional, but upheld the ban on solicitation, saying that prostitutes should not be able to communicate with their clients in public places.

The court released a decision on an appeal of Superior Court Judge Susan G. Himel's high-profile ruling that three provisions of the Criminal Code pertaining to prostitution should be struck down on the grounds that they are unconstitutional.

The Ontario appeal court agreed with two-thirds of Himel's ruling, namely that the provisions prohibiting common bawdy-houses and living off the avails of prostitution, are both unconstitutional in their current form.

But the court disagreed that the communicating provision must be struck down, meaning that it "remains in full force."

The court said it will strike the word “prostitution” from the definition of "common bawdy-house," as it applies to Section 210 of the Criminal Code, which otherwise prevents prostitutes from offering services out of fixed indoor locations such as brothels or their homes.

Read the rest of the article here.

A feminist guy on BDSM play.

From The Peacock Angel:

BDSM is PLAY

So, in my response to my vanilla privilege post I mostly got very sweet supportive comments, there were a few responses like “How can a man who enjoys dominating and humiliating women be a feminist?” and I’d like to say something to those folks. You’re asking the wrong question. It’s not about dominating and humiliating women, it’s about dominating and humiliating your sex partner… who likes it.

Men who enjoy dominating and humiliating women in a BDSM context, actually just enjoy dominating and humiliating their sex partner… and they happen to be heterosexual. There are men who enjoy dominating and humiliating other men exist as well, women who enjoy dominating and humiliating men exist, women who enjoy dominating and humiliating women exist. It’s not about subjugating women, or men or any one else, it’s about consensually pretending to subjugate your sex partner, because you both enjoy it, it’s the game you happen to like. It’s not about misogyny/misandry… it’s about what sex/gender turns you on.

I feel like people who say things like “How can you be a feminist when you like being beaten?” don’t understand a few things:

Read the rest of his entry and explanation here.

More clogged drains.

A week ago, I posted a letter from an English university about masturbating in the showers and clogging the drains (link). Monika sent along a photo of a sign from UBC that's supposedly real. Can anyone comment on the veracity of these signs? Do they really exist, or is this simply a really good Photoshop job?

Knit a uterus for a congressman.

From Jezebel, passed along by Laura (thanks!).

You can click the links in the text for more informartion:

Knit a Uterus to Donate to a Congressman in Need

Remember when we decided that Rick Santorum needed a uterus of his very own so he'd leave ours alone? Well, now there's a similar idea being proposed for the members of Congress across this great land who seem so insistent on getting all up in our lady parts since they're jealous they don't have any of their own. So how exactly are we going to make that happen, since we can't, you know, give them actual uteruses? Enter Government Free VJJ, a project which aims to have have ladies knit or crochet lovely versions of uteruses (plus cervixes and vulvas) and mail them to their representatives.

If you've got some spare time and know how to knit or crochet, pick one of these patterns (or devise your own), fill out this form so they can keep track of who's getting what, and then mail off the finished product to the statesman of your choice. It might not end the war on women, but at least it will give our beloved representatives something soft to cuddle when they have nightmares about slut-demons and whore-monsters taking over the world with our birth-control riddled godzila-sized vaginas.

Louis Theroux: A Place for Pedophiles.

Passed long by Katy (thanks!). For those unfamiliar with Louis Theroux's Weird Weekends, it's a British TV documentary show that provides a glimpse into the lives of people that you'd not normally encounter. I previously posted a segment he did on bodybuilding.

In this episode, Louis and his crew spend some time in what's ostensibly a long-term prison for sex offenders. It's pretty candid, and it features several men, some of whom exhibit substantial denial and rationalization (which are extremely common in this population), and some who fully admit to their preferences and behaviours (and their consequences). Keep in mind that the show is intended as entertainment and doesn't portray an entirely accurate picture.

WARNING: this may act as a trigger for those who have been victims of sexual abuse.

British documentary film maker Louis Theroux has a unique style. Like no other he manages to strike the balance between getting involved with and close to his topics and making sure he keeps enough distance to guarantee his neutrality and independence.


Twighlight and BDSM.

From Megan (thanks!):

Maybe you have heard of it, but this BDSM erotica Twilight based fan fiction novel called Fifty Shades of Grey got picked up by a publishing company, topped the New York Times bestsellers list and has caused many a media stir. Here is one article about it: link.

I started reading it a bit out of curiosity, and if you can get past the atrocious grammar and writing, it might prove to be an interesting read for some. Or at the very least, a look into BDSM culture (which I will admit I know very little about). It's definitely NC-17 content....maybe I'm new to the whole dom-sub thing but if any guy treated me this way, I'd give him a good right hook to the nose!

You can purchase it here.

Dr. Christopher Ryan: Sex at Dawn.

In the section on monogamy, I mentioned the book Sex at Dawn, which was published earlier this year. The book makes the argument that from an evolutionary perspective, humans aren't sexually monogamous. Not surprisingly, it's drawn much attention, both positive and negative. The interview in the clip below is with one of the authours, Dr. Ryan. The description:

In Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality renegade researchers Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá debunk almost everything we “think we know” about sex and show how our promiscuous past haunts our current struggles regarding monogamy, sexual orientation, and family dynamics. Weaving together convergent, often overlooked evidence from anthropology, archeology, primatology, anatomy, and psychosexuality, Sex at Dawn shows how far from human nature sexual monogamy really is and unapologetically upends unwarranted assumptions and unfounded conclusions while offering a revolutionary understanding of why we live and love as we do.

And the video (via the SLOG):

In Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality renegade researchers Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá debunk almost everything we “think we know” about sex and show how our promiscuous past haunts our current struggles regarding monogamy, sexual orientation, and family dynamics. Weaving together convergent, often overlooked evidence from anthropology, archeology, primatology, anatomy, and psychosexuality, Sex at Dawn shows how far from human nature sexual monogamy really is and unapologetically upends unwarranted assumptions and unfounded conclusions while offering a revolutionary understanding of why we live and love as we do.


2012 nominees for the Feminist Porn Awards.

From Good For Her:

The Nominees for the Seventh Annual Feminist Porn Awards are in!

The nominees on this year’s list continue to strive to provide erotic entertainment that is smart, sexy, and appreciates women as viewers. In addition to featuring over 40 nominations, the 2012 nominee list includes the highest number of nominated websites ever at 16.

The nominated films for the 2012 Feminist Porn Awards show the true diversity of feminist porn - from the sultry art direction in Erika Lust’s cinematic masterpiece Cabaret Desire; to Buck Angel’s dynamic and insightful docu-porn Sexing the Transman; on to the raw sexual power in Hella Brown by breakout director Nenna; all the way to Tristan Taormino's fabulously informative and hotExpert Guide to Advanced Anal Sex; let’s not forget local talent N Maxwell Lander who draws us in with the sensuous short Emile. These are all just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the talent and sharp erotic eye of the feminist porn creators in the 2012 nominees list.

These nominees are under consideration for categories including: Sexiest Straight Film, Hottest Trans Scene/Film, Most Deliciously Diverse Cast and many more. The Nominees for the 2012 Good For Her Feminist Porn Awards are (in alphabetical order – film title first):

To see the list of nominees (recommendations), click here.

Beauty Pays.

From Q on CBC, and as mentioned in class:

We've all heard the expression that a beautiful girl can get away with murder, and we all know this is hyperbole (or perhaps a rumour started by an ugly person). But according to a new book, there is statistical evidence that the best-looking people receive all kinds of perks not bestowed upon plain Janes and average Joes.

In Beauty Pays, economist Daniel Hamermesh cites research that suggests beautiful people tend to do better than their aesthetically-challenged counterparts. They get bigger paycheques, better terms on mortgages, more glamorous or wealthy spouses and much more.

This beauty bias is even present in professions where physical attractiveness isn't thought to be a factor in someone's job. For example, Hamermesh looked at NFL quarterbacks and found that players considered to be the best-looking made more money through endorsements and salary than less attractive players of the same position, even though one would think that an athlete's compensation should be dictated purely by performance on the field.

Hamermesh said this effect is also evident in his own line of work: teaching economics at the University of Texas. "The better-looking professors get better evaluations from their students, which is not good for me," he said in a recent interview with Q.

But isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder? How do we, as a society, decide who is attractive? Hamermesh says scientists still don't exactly know what makes someone beautiful (facial symmetry is just a part of it), but noted that although beauty may be subjective, people tend to agree on what a good-looking face is.

"It doesn't matter that it's subjective if we all tend to look at it quite similarly. If I give you a scale, you rank people on a five-to-one scale, and you rate somebody a five, I'd be happy to bet, and I've seen this in studies I and others have done, that if you rate somebody a five, probably nine out of 10 other people will rate that person a four or a five...We tend to agree, we have standards of beauty even though we can't define it."

So what can be done to level the playing field for people who didn't luck out in the genetic lottery? Plastic surgery or head-to-toe makeovers are options, but Hamermesh says studies have shown that those changes make little difference to one's overall beauty. Instead, the professor has offered a radical suggestion: anti-discrimination laws to protect society's ugliest.

"I don't see it as being logically any different from things we now worry about protecting," he said, saying that employment laws protect people with disabilities from being passed over for jobs or promotions unfairly.

"One could argue for the same thing, that employers cannot exhibit patterns of only hiring the good looking or only promoting the good looking."

Listen to the interview with Dr. Hamermesh here.

Anal breathing?

NSFW

by Joseph Kramer Ph.D haha Attack of the Show

I can't say that I've ever come across any research examining the benefits of anal breathing (I'm not even sure what anal breathing is?), but who knows...

Dr. Kramer's website can be found here.

Via the SLOG.